There is a thought voiced by many successful entrepreneurs

"The result you want lies in the actions you avoid".

The thought is powerful, but I thought about it. Is there really an answer in it that can be found on your own...?

And I saw that there is a catch in the wording of the phrase, namely in the word "actions".

This word automatically conveys to us the meaning, habits, and image of ACTIONS imposed by society.

For us, actions are usually DOING, not something else. And the one who does a lot for their success or dream, struggles like a fish against the ice, but almost without success, sooner or later asks themselves, "what the hell am I doing wrong or not the right thing?"

And I often ask myself that, but now, sitting on the seashore in silence, I realized that the wise thought needs to be urgently rephrased, because it is in words that the necessary or unnecessary meanings and images are hidden.

My version:
"The success we desire lies in the AREA of actions we ignore".

And then the picture changes...
Now we need to look not at actions, which are deceptively equal to doing, but at the AREA of these actions.

What areas do we have? The easiest way to see them is on the wheel of life balance.

And when we see that, for example, we have an underdeveloped area of RELATIONSHIPS, which we usually do not associate with the area of FINANCE, we naturally ignore and avoid it. But all areas are connected not by our logic, but by the laws of life and nature.

With this approach, the scope of work and the direction of experiments become clear.

And why do we avoid?
Because it's scary. First of all, it's fear, which we rationalize and cleverly hide in the logic of doubts and skepticism. We hide it so we don't see it. And what we don't see is not so scary.

Almost all coaching is built on the principle of "go into your fear".

In this simple way, we get the RIGHT answer. All that remains is to make a choice - to act or not to act, which is essentially the same.

By inaction in the area we need, we create INEFFECTIVE actions in an unnecessary area. Because energy requires an outlet.

As a result, the outcome in the form of fatigue and spent resources creates the feeling that we are doing something and even seemingly moving towards the goal, but ahead is a mirage. There is nothing there.

The further we go, the harder it is to give up the essentially empty result in the form of spent effort, time, and money, because the brain habitually considers these costs as its capital. And giving up everything you have is stupid.

Such is the straightforward and stupid logic of our algorithms. And to avoid seeing this stupidity, we wrap it in "reasonable explanations", where, as in a good movie, there is everything - logic, cause, effect, and a hero who valiantly endures it all.

And when someone, God forbid, highlights the truth, we get angry. Isn't that so?

Personally, I found a step-by-step solution. And it's not just step 1, 2, and 3. No.

It's preparation for step 0.
Step 0.
Evaluation of the result.
Step 1.
Evaluation of the result.
Step 2
etc.

I called this solution ARCHITECT OF THE FUTURE. Step-by-step work on yourself, without violence and sharp turns, after which a rollback often comes and nullifies efforts.

Few people start with preparation for step 0. Many start with step 2 and wonder why it's so difficult, why it doesn't work...

Because you're in a hurry. Because you're breaking the sequence.

If interested, write to me in private messages @EseninSA.
I'll tell you how it works and why you're unlikely to find something like this anywhere else...

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